Nothing much new in the relationship department…

It’s been a while since I’ve updated everyone on what’s been going on in my relationship life…

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Well my Mr. Hard To Get firefighter has still not made any kind of commitment. I know…surprise surprise.  We still hang out every now and then, but not nearly as much as we used to. He bought a house so supposedly he’s been busy with that. I just think it shows that he’s not willing to make time for me, regardless of the situation, so I’ve about given up on him. 

Then there’s the “older guy.” We hang out about once or twice a week. He’s 11 years older than me, but we get along. He’s nice, good looking, loves working out and best of all, I don’t have to jump through hoops, make that flaming hoops over a tank filled with man-eating piranhas, to hang out with him. He actually invites me do to things. Shocker, huh? But that wow factor is not there with him. 

I went out on two dates with another guy who works for one of San Antonio’s city councilwoman. He was funny, seemed like a hard worker who has his act together. But I got the feeling that he wanted to move too quickly. He even took it upon himself to tell me he thinks I should work for city council, and even emailed me a few communications jobs he found on a job posting site. Kinda freaked me out. He did that even though I told him I had just gotten a promotion at work that I was really excited about. Either way, I realized that wasn’t going anywhere either. 

Overall, a bunch of blah blah blah and yada yada yada.  

Aside from my promotion, which has been keeping me busy either way, too busy to worry about dating, I have a trip to London planned for July that I’m more excited about than I’ve been about anything for a while. I’ve never been overseas, and yes, I’m going to see my London boy while I’m there. I’m also going to spend time with my good friend JoAnn. I know it’s going to be a blast. Something to look forward to after all of the turmoil going on with my family after my uncle died. 

This probably sounds selfish, but I think it’s a good thing I don’t have a serious relationship with anyone right now. I want to enjoy myself while I’m on my trip and spend time with my friends. I’m in, what for me, is a lazy, selfish mode. And I’m enjoying the time I’ve had to myself.